Ni igiki gitera amatati mu muryango?

SARAHa wo muri Gana amaze imyaka 17 yubakanye na Jacob. Yiyemerera ati: “Akenshi turashwana dupfa amahera.” Asigura ati: “Ndababazwa no kubona nkora ivyo nshoboye vyose kugira nitwararike umuryango wacu ariko Jacob akaba atigera ambwira ukuntu ubutunzi bw’umuryango bwifashe. Hari igihe tumara amayinga ata wuvugisha uwundi.”

Umugabo wiwe Jacob avuga ati: “Ivyo ni vyo. Birashika tugaterana amajambo. Kenshi biva ku kudatahurana no kutaganira neza. Hari igihe kandi biva ku gutwarwa n’ishavu.”

Nathan wo mu Buhindi aheruka kwubaka urwiwe. Aratwiganira ivyashitse igihe sebukwe yakankamira inabukwe. Avuga ati: “Mabukwe vyaramushavuje aca aratekera utwiwe arigira. Igihe nabaza databukwe igituma yakankamiye mabukwe ukuraho, yavyakiriye nk’igitutsi. Mu nyuma nahavuye menya ko yariko abwira twese.”

Ngira nawe uramaze kubona ko n’amajambo makeyi ashobora kuvyura amatati akomeye mu rugo, igihe avuzwe mu mwanya utabereye. Mushobora gutangura kuganira mutekanye mugabo bidatevye ico kiyago kigahinduka uguhazuka. Nta muntu yama avuga ibibereye igihe cose. Biroroshe rero ko dutahura abandi ukutari kwo. Naho ari ukwo, mu muryango murashobora kwumvikana kandi hakarangwa amahoro.

Wokora iki igihe mutanguye guhazuka? Ni ibiki vyogufasha kugarukana amahoro n’akayaga keza mu muryango? Imiryango yokora iki kugira izigame amahoro mu rugo? Raba ikiganiro gikurikira.